Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Talking Earlier With My Mother About Our Time In The Azores Islands From 1953-1955 I Believe, My Father's First Post With he Sate Depart,ment Overseas After World War II














I guess this is what it looked like when I was only one and two years' of age and climbing on everything?!? his book was published in 1956 so they may have been there talking some of these pics when my father, mother and I were there? Seems possible. LOVE having this book, it is water-damaged and I love it still and will include more pics here and more stories as I hear them from my mother and I am able to type and share them here. Cheers! Have a great Sunday, it is now March 22nd, 2015 as I add these pictures above from this old and loved book on the Azores Islands ....   TONY   Love you Mom, love you Dad! hanks for such a glorious ride and adventure for so many years , starting here back in 1954 ....
















     It was quite the converdation. I listened , rivetted to my small hand-held Samsung phone as my mother spoke excitedly, movingly, warmly and I tried valiantly at t first to remember everything before I realized there was a whole lot of it and I started to write on the backside of the envelope of the most recent letter I received from my brother Larry. It was quite comic, really, writing and trying to record key words and expressions as there were frightfully so vey many. And I was partly used to this, for the last few years my mother has shared many of these stories with me of us being overseas. I was a principle player in this one earlier today and so that caught even more, and fixed much of my attentionas I ran after her with my pen scratching paper as she spoke faster than I could either write and perhaps ultimately remember, that is, until the next time. But feeling special and wonderful hearing these words of hers as if, possibly, for the last time. You - I just never know anymore, so every moment of sharing like this is important to me and I do treasure them, really I do : perhaps too much. But I think not.





I am having problems downloading pictures, so stressful, really a problem and it should not be. I have to tell my mother's story. This is an old map we bought of Portugal and I believe handbrake in RIo Dr Janeiro when we moved there next. I love it as my time in Brazil was also really special for me. I have had such a wonderful time listening to Mom tell me these stories and now I simply have to find time to type  them here while they are still fresh in my mind. Love you Mom.








Francesco saved me, my mother said! I smiled at at him, put my arms out and he picked me up off the carport roof there at our home in the Azores. " That's when I knew we had a climber You actually were. You climbed everything, just having a happy time. You were having a ball. ... They talked everything about me. " siad my mother as she relived and pictured these events back in 1954-1955. What a very long time ago that was! Wonderful, wish I could remember it, thrilled that my mother still does and has shared this with me. Now I get to share it with you, anyone interested that is in reading this chapter in the lives of my father, my mother and me.  


My mother reminisced about this time in the Azores Islands, our father's first post with the State Department and the American Embassy. " I had the best time ever on this first post of anyone. I never had a grander time than there. hey called me ' menina senora consuela,   ... Dona Nancy Nenina Nacy Vis-Sonsueleza?  They talked about me all the time. I was the only American girl"  They taught me Portuguese in a hurry. I learned it a lot faster than Harry.  I think they tried to spare his ego. "










Sunday, February 1, 2015

Talking To Mom , Nancy Proctor Quinn About Our Father Harry Alan Quinn And How Back In 19611962 He Was A Grand Hero In Recife, Brazil For Helping o Rescue Europeen Hostages On A Boat Just Off The Coast Of Brazil Out Of Food And Out Of Food! Incredible!!




     I just got a call from Mom and we ended up talking about ony and Angelica Marchetti and How Anjelica had last had dinner with Walter and his new wife  (  Judy had passed away several years ago , and how Anjelica knows that Walter has a daughter still living in Brazil and does not know where the son may be now? Wow. A lot to digest and to record here as this conversation led to a big one that took place just after Larry was born in 1961 and concerned how our father Harry Quinn  became a real hero and the whole world read about it, saw the photographs published juat after, or maybe even as this all was happening.


     Walte Gainsbury was involved, too and our father never found out becaus Mom never told him when he got back from Recife and he asked her : " How are you doing? " But more on that a bit later.

     Mom was speaking so quickly just now, breathless and very excited as she spoke and laughed and her voice revealed the true emotion there still as she recounted this rather incredulous story and how it affected her and the three of us, the children that were still in Rio de Janeiro while our father had been flown to Recife and boarded onto a ship there just off the coast of Brazil where all the action and how this exciting story was finishing and playing out that started in Europe on a luxury liner there in the Mediterramean somewhere way back when in 1961 or 1962? I will have to check for the articles published on this to get more of the details and the facts that were then recounted to the world.

     What I relate here is simply the story that my Mom just recounted to me ( it was the second time now, the first I do not think I got all the information like this at once to really get this amazing story and picture in my head, in one! ).

     According to my mother there was a luxury liner loaded with passengers, all wealthy Eurpean ones thinking that they were on a luxury liner about to take off on some wonderful cruise. But oh no , according to my mother just now. She tells the story that the captain of this ship was from one of the northerne African countries trying to get it's independence and the captain being from there had the idea to hijacl the boat ( the first-time ever my mother just said this had ever happened ) and to ramsom them for their money to give back to his country to help them fight their battle to gain independence.

     Well, he was able to get their monet supposedly and he was able to manuever this ship that they were on and avoid capture and attention. he was good at this and he somehow got the ship . this luxury liner to Brazil and to where they finally hid and ran out of food off the coast of Recife the town. Many of our American Coast Guard and other military vessels, as well as those from other countries were all trying to find this ship? Where was it? Everyone was in hot pursuit and so everyone was looking, many military ships out in the Atlantic all at once trying to find this ship?

     Our father, Harry Quinn that was stationed there at the American Embassy in Rio De Janeiro, it may have been Brazilia by now, but I think it was still Rion, was called to active duty to go and try and resolve this tense rescue of all these passengers that had finally been found. Once the food ran out the captain contacted those searching for them and alerted them to where they were. My father, according to my mother just now was the only one there at the time that had wartime experience having fought in World War II and he was the only one she said that was qualified there to try and attempt a peaceful and quick resolution to this now international world scandal.

     While this was happening my mother was scared for our lives because she says that we received many threatening calls from those that had an interest in this and did not want our father to be successful in this quest and mission that was suddenly thrust upon him. She said that many threatening calls she got and that they were made on our lives if our father did not cease and desisit immediately.

     She was afraid for herself, for the three of us and for Mariana and Baba that worked for us cooking and taking care of us all at the time. She did not call the American Embassy and she did not want the Marines to be dispatched to our home. She said that this would have been sudden death to have done so as the marines would have drawn more attention to us and where we were. She had fear still in her voice as it quavered and broke and she grew hoarse teling this.

     She called our friends Judy and Walter and asked Walter what she should do? He said : " Nacy, have you ever fired a gun? " My mother said that she had and that she had learned how to on the Orme Ranch that she went to as a young teenager for the summers when growing up. here she had learned to hold a gun and aim it at empty tin cans and shoot and hit them! Once hearing this Walter told her that he would bring her a gun and that she would have to use it to protect herself and the three of us and Mariana and Baba, too. He did bring it, he did show her, and so she was ready with a gun to use if need be. Amazing.

     She never did have to use it. Somehow Dad was flown to a ship that was close to this Luxury liner and somehow he was suspended in a basket on a line that was dangles with a crane of some type over the Atlantic between the ship and the Luxury liner, I suppose arranging with the captain of that ransomed/ hijacked vessel to negotiate terms for the safe release of all these hostages. Mom says that a picture of Dad in his basket that she said looked like an Easter basket was printed in the newspaper account (  she cannot remember if it was the New York imes of the Washington Post that she saw this in ? ), and so she knows it is true.

     She said that Dad was a hero in all of this and that ther article and these pictures like this one which she claims was half the page alerted the world and her to parts of the story she knew nothing about as it was all so hush-hush being the first-ever international scandal like this that she was aware of that involved a luxury liner being hijacked?

     I aksed her : " What was Dad's reaction to this when he returned? he must have been mad? " She said that she never told Dad about the gun and that three or so months later she returned the gun to Walter wrapped in newspaper and thanked him for it. he was a hero to her for helping her and not just outright dismissing her pleas and her plight and doing nothing.

     It would be great to hear Walter's accounting of this story now so many years later? I would love to hear it myself.

     Now I have the task of looking into all of this and finding out whatever I can and reading and seeing this picture and story as it is all quite exciting.

     Mom just said that there was a storage facility that she wished that she had visited where many of these olf stories get sent to for safe-keeping. Maybe I will lookin into that myself now.

     Wow, so much left for me to do now. More as soon as I have any to share here. Cheers,

     Happy Sunday, February 1st, 2015 on Super Bowl Sunday where the Seahawks play the Patriots soon! More big news, but nowhere as exciting as this. Cjeers,  TONY


Monday, December 8, 2014

My Grandmother Marjorie Freedman Made Many Things By Hand That Our Mother Cherished And This Ceramic Round Outdoors Picnic Table Was No Exception! It's Beautiful, Really Beautiful, Wish It Was Here Now!


Our father had this in his courtyard where he lived with his sister Rosalie for many years back in the nineties, and I would go and visit and we would tour the local California wineries together then.



These were great memories had while dining at this table all over the world where it traveled with us from Brazil to northern Virginia back off to Trinidad, then back here to northern Virginia before heading to Costa Rica and then returning here to northern Virginia before heading to Paris, France, then to Panama City, Panama, and then to San Leandro, California where it is pictured here.

So many fine stories that this table can tell. Our mother has many and she loves that her adopted mother Marjorie Freeman made it. She treasured it. I think that when she and our father divorced that it was a very tough decision to decide to give it to our father? I think it would have been, for me at least.

I saw it in California and I am glad that I took the picture of it. I hear that it crumbled to pieces when they tried to move it. hat is very disheartening and my heart bleeds when I think of it.

Anyway, here it is in all it's glory and I will ask our mother to tell us about any special moments that happened around it that she remembers. I simply remember how beautiful and colorful it is, how I liked to run my fingers along its uneaven surfaces as I would eat my meals there : we shared many as a family of five here at this very table, my mother and father and my two brothers and I. Very special.

Cheers on this cold and biting Monday afternoon here in northern Virginia where I am still battling a bad cold and feel still wobbly and achy not so good. Looking at this table in this picture above makes me feel better now! Hurrah!!

This is for you Mom, love you Mom, will talk to you as soon as I get my voice back.  TONY  12 /8 / 2014   at 1:37 PM ... and I am all bundled up in my bathrobe and my BV  ( Beaulieu Vineyards and Winery ) gray blanket now wrapped around my neck. It feels so good, Stacy our old rep for the BV Winery gave this to me in the nineties. Thank you Stacy! I still love it even as it gets old and worn with love and wear and yet it still does the trick, keeps me snug on a cold and damp and biting day here.

Friday, November 28, 2014

Had A Great Conversation With Nanda And I Wrote What She Said Here Because I Loved What I was Hearing ... Enjoy! The Day After Thanksgiving Here In Northern Virginia ....

i am talking to mom now and giving her your phone number now so she can call you today. it's a nice conversation with her and she sounds great and i am glad that she called me as she has been on my mind and i have been concerned for her. i will find out more now about her trip to the hospital this week.. i spoke one sentence to him, he did not want to speak and neither did i. oh well, that will probably not get any better. mom is talking about a a tree made out of feathers, that was the advertising for it, she ordered it and it was not what was advertised through , it was not like the one that she had and that she gave to Connie. Connie and bill and Cathy came by.  mom just said ; " Tony, i'm blind, i cannot see anymore. " she says it's been a difficult time for us, we've both been sick, we are both very aware that we have problems getting things done , Mom is saying all of this, they did not get out, she's taking some powerful medicine as she fell down again, did not break anything, " It's a career to being well."  Eric has not been doing well, she goes in for her test on Wednesday." , "   The good news is that they have not found anything wrong with me! I do not have lung problems. never mind, i am rattling on, i try not to listen, eric hears it all. the upside of all of this medication is that something is work, not fixing my bones but my mind is much clearer, got rid of this fog from old age. Bill and Connie drove up. Eric and Connie had a great conversation that they both enjoyed. " Mom is talking about Bill's Alsheimers that he has. " But Bill looks wonderful! "  Mom as you say Larry sounds fine. She's laughing and enjoying her conversation with me and Eric is quiet and that's okay. I am enjoying writing this to you as she speaks to me. She is talking about Cathy now, Now we are talking about Connie owning three grand pianos! All the four or five grand pianos and there are not enough to go around! I am sorry we lost our grand piano but at least we do not have to go through this! It sank when it got loaded onto the boat in Costa Rica. They were waiting for it to dry out, the dining room table made it that we have here, but the Steinway did not make it. ... Connie has three grand pianos! Oh well, but Leslie is the maddest of them all ... " Both of them look much younger than they are! They don't look any older than they did 20 years ago. He's just not as up-tight as he was. I was blown away by the way they looked! " Sez Mom, Bill is two or three years older than me, Mom says ... they were for their period, their era, typical of what a good couple looked like. I think Connie has a distinct edge. " Oh Tony, you've got a plate full!  " "Mom says. " We're all working as hard as we can to keep it together. " I say. " here was hope when I got married at 23, the whole country has fallen apart. I don't want to vote for either of the candidates. They don't give our President to do what he can! They don't give him a chance. ... it brings back old days, memories of Brasil and the old days. Harry and Bill were closer than Connie and I were, Bill offered something really nice to Harry... he had been in the Army ... he softened the impression of the Foreign Service Harry did for Bill and other military people. When you think about it, it is amazing that Connie and I get along so well as we have absolutely nothing in common. What Bill and Harry had something special. But I had to work on Connie, we had some hard times. " says Mom as she continues to talk about Bill and Connie and Cathy ...  Mom is talking about the Poire Wiliiam liqueur that I gave her last Thanksgiving. " I don't go any places. My bank balance is going up because it's no fun for me, it's exhausting, I can't see anymore, Eric does most of the shopping. He has trusted to me to buy somethings and I have made some remarkable mistakes! " Mom just said chuckling out loud! She is saying that the signs on things should be larger so that those with macular degeneration ... because of old age, it's not because of anything else, they should do something about this. " I'm worried that I might get it and that worries me. " I tell Mom, as I could not live without my sight I am thinking ... that would be just disastrous I think to myself as I listen to Mom as she talks on giving me little chance to say anything, and that is okay with me as I just like listening to her voice, her animation, I'm glad I can talk to you, you sound good. " So do you! " I say back, you sound nice , Give my love to everybody. We had a really nice conversation. Just tell he I loved our conversation. " I love you Tony! " " I love you Mom. I'm so happy to talk to you. " Give the cats my love! " Mom just added. " Beau Beau 2 is whatever Eric calls her, It's too much to try to remember. Beau Beau 2 has her moments, she does not like for me to pick her up, if I surprise her, she has mean claws. Eric has a different experience. I wish I had a border terrior! Benny was little border terrier. Benny was given to Mort to give to me on one of his trips to Europe. ... They did fox hunting, bring the fox up by the neck from their burrough. Benny did fine at Lake Tahoe. People loved him ... one day he just disappeared. Mother put up a sign about it, the next day a man calls and a man called and said they think they found Benny on a boulevard on the way to hearing Frank Sinatra .... a big deal at this night club in Hollywood, he had a topless foreign car, and he stopped and he left Benny with the hatcheck girl, everybody was talking with Benny, and he brought him over to me and mother at the show and that's how we got him back, he was something in Hollywood, I did not know, gorgeous, holding little Benny ... he was perfectly charming, Benny was the hit of the evening, he stole the show, I am sure that Frank Sinatra sang well, Benny was being so charming at the hat checkout counter .... only in Hollywood, ... Benny disappeared again, a week or so later, benny went away to die Mom's mother said, if Benny came home , wanted to come home, he knew how to come home and he would , Ciro's night club, was there for a longtime. Number one, with a stage, you could dance, they only had the best performers ... I went on my 21st birthday with a man, when it was all over he asked me to marry him, i was dumbfounded, I did not see it coming, ... said Mom,  anyway, that's the story of Benny ... the book is 3 pages and growing ,   it's almost finished, Eric has turned it into a story, he has made a time and a generation come to life, and Bengy makes it come alive.... what it was like then .... says Mom, Eric has added to make it all come alive ... " I don't know what to think, it's hard to be the subject of a book ... they never ask people what they think about adoption and being adopted. That's why I wrote the book. I told them what I thought. Now it is all written in black-and=white, mother was a dreadful alcoholic, I am much more sympathetic than I was to her. I can't deal wit this, your screaming and yelling. The heating system had gone out here in Brazil, and so I said : "  Harry you put her back on the plane to go back to home, .....mother did not want a child, we were never close, she wanted a symbol, I was brought up according to Meridian's Corsican standards, she did not speak English, i spent all day with this woman that yacked at e, it was weird, i did not understand anything, all tjose years when a young girl bonds with her mother, it never happened for meme, first a nurse, them Meridiam i never really knew mother until i was twelve, i don't know what mother thought of me? " says Mom  " I am muc more understanding of mother. What she thought she was doing - impressing the neighbors! That's tough on a kid. I was akid! Eric's book has explained mother to me. having a book written about you is an experience. It's mostly eric's interpretation of what i have written and what i have told him, it's bee an experience, he hasn't given up on me! " Mom laughs, he's been very persistent, he has to read it to me . It's been a real experience for me learning about myself, why i did or why i felt so little affection for mother, i think mother loved cars. it's a mote idea : what did she love better, me or the Oldsmobile, " Mom laughed! " You took the child then, no questions asked. I think the whole thing should be abolished. Anyway, I'm going to hang up now ... " Mom says ... Let's stop talking now. I love you very much. Call me soon. " says Mom to me and the phone is hung up and push the button on my mobile home line , too! What a great conversation. We spoke of you earlier upstairs so that is not written here Larry. We both said how great you sounded and how nice it was to talk to you and hear your voice. then she wanted your number as I told her I would call you so I came down here to my computer to type this and give her your number and I am thrilled that I did and have it down and can share it hear now with you. Love you, call you really soon. Have a great Friday,  TONY  11/28/ 2014  ... the day after Thanksgiving here at home in northern Virginia ... it's nice outside, took Louie Abigail's cat outside earlier when I went to get the Washington Post newspaper. There are lots of typos here and I will try and correct them before sending this to you now, if not, try and make the

Friday, August 22, 2014

Watercolor Christmas Images Draw By Nancy Proctor Quinn In 1980 With Watercolors On A Piece Of Cardboard Inspiored By Her Small Clay Painted Bright Figurines That She Loves Along With Her French Provence Santons : Cheers! Sante A Tous!!!

What fun, I treasure this and always have it on display around my desk at home, thanks Mom, cheers, happy Friday and weekend to all this August 22nd, 2014 ... call you later Mom from work, love you!   TONY









Drawn by Nancy Proctor Quinn in Crystal City in her old apartment in late 1980 around the holidays I believe on this piece of cardboard with some of my watercolors from the small Christmas set of figurines for Noel that she bought on a trip with our family to Martinique. I was not on trip then unfortunately but she loves these almost as much, or as much ?!?, as her/our French Provence Santons. Cheers et Sante et a plus tard aujourd'hui Maman! Je vous aime beaucoup!! To fils,  TONY  8/22/2014

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

A Wonderful Monday Afternoon July 28th, 2014 Spent With My Mother Nancy And My Brother Eric On A Drop-Dead Gorgeous Low-Humidity, Bright, Breezy, Baby-Blue Skies Monday : Hurray, Great Drive Up And Back , Lovely Reading To Us By Brother Eric Of Our Mother's Childhood Stories She Wrote & Eric Is Editing To Publish Soon!


We are all of us stars ... reads this ... From Marilyn Monroe's Facebook page of today, July 29th, 2014 ...




and my comment ...


Lovely thing to see after walking through my garden out back and saying to myself : " It's a real garden. " I was beaming inside as I said this before coming inside on another drop-dead- gorgeous day here. My drive up to Winchester yesterday and working in our mother's garden and watering weeding, seeing her, have my brother read her own childhood memoirs out loud to us , having her comment on them, then him starting to read again : wow, what can I possibly say?!? Priceless. With the smell of basil on my hands from earlier working outside, moving a delicate lavender-pink Hydrange to the front with a sad hanging vine that desperately needed watering, transplanting Yarrow to the front, more dirt stuck between my fingers and my nails, my The Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation RACE FOR THE CURE Washington D.C. June 5th, 2004 a bit dirty from the garden work - my badge of hard work - ahhhhh, it was all priceless on a beautiful day and then to return to dinner with wife and daughter, white Burgundy from Saint Veran I believe and a 2010 Grand Cru Saint Emilion red Bordeaux - on still a beautiful evening, and this image of Marilyn : THE Tops! Cheers, Happy Tuesday, 7/29/2014 to you all ... off to work in D.C. soon ... TONY

Thursday, July 10, 2014

For Us Three, And We Know Who We Three Are, YOU Are ONE of THE JOYS Of Our Lives : Thank You, Obregado, Merci, Gracias ... Happy Thursday July 10th, 2014 To You Today, May It be Fine Day For You!!!



One of the real joys of my life, love you, love you, love you ... may this be a great Thursday for you, it was great to hear your voice earlier this morning ...
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LOVE YOU!!!!!!   ALWAYS, ALWAYS WILL, TOO .. all three of us ...