Monday, December 8, 2014

My Grandmother Marjorie Freedman Made Many Things By Hand That Our Mother Cherished And This Ceramic Round Outdoors Picnic Table Was No Exception! It's Beautiful, Really Beautiful, Wish It Was Here Now!


Our father had this in his courtyard where he lived with his sister Rosalie for many years back in the nineties, and I would go and visit and we would tour the local California wineries together then.



These were great memories had while dining at this table all over the world where it traveled with us from Brazil to northern Virginia back off to Trinidad, then back here to northern Virginia before heading to Costa Rica and then returning here to northern Virginia before heading to Paris, France, then to Panama City, Panama, and then to San Leandro, California where it is pictured here.

So many fine stories that this table can tell. Our mother has many and she loves that her adopted mother Marjorie Freeman made it. She treasured it. I think that when she and our father divorced that it was a very tough decision to decide to give it to our father? I think it would have been, for me at least.

I saw it in California and I am glad that I took the picture of it. I hear that it crumbled to pieces when they tried to move it. hat is very disheartening and my heart bleeds when I think of it.

Anyway, here it is in all it's glory and I will ask our mother to tell us about any special moments that happened around it that she remembers. I simply remember how beautiful and colorful it is, how I liked to run my fingers along its uneaven surfaces as I would eat my meals there : we shared many as a family of five here at this very table, my mother and father and my two brothers and I. Very special.

Cheers on this cold and biting Monday afternoon here in northern Virginia where I am still battling a bad cold and feel still wobbly and achy not so good. Looking at this table in this picture above makes me feel better now! Hurrah!!

This is for you Mom, love you Mom, will talk to you as soon as I get my voice back.  TONY  12 /8 / 2014   at 1:37 PM ... and I am all bundled up in my bathrobe and my BV  ( Beaulieu Vineyards and Winery ) gray blanket now wrapped around my neck. It feels so good, Stacy our old rep for the BV Winery gave this to me in the nineties. Thank you Stacy! I still love it even as it gets old and worn with love and wear and yet it still does the trick, keeps me snug on a cold and damp and biting day here.

Friday, November 28, 2014

Had A Great Conversation With Nanda And I Wrote What She Said Here Because I Loved What I was Hearing ... Enjoy! The Day After Thanksgiving Here In Northern Virginia ....

i am talking to mom now and giving her your phone number now so she can call you today. it's a nice conversation with her and she sounds great and i am glad that she called me as she has been on my mind and i have been concerned for her. i will find out more now about her trip to the hospital this week.. i spoke one sentence to him, he did not want to speak and neither did i. oh well, that will probably not get any better. mom is talking about a a tree made out of feathers, that was the advertising for it, she ordered it and it was not what was advertised through , it was not like the one that she had and that she gave to Connie. Connie and bill and Cathy came by.  mom just said ; " Tony, i'm blind, i cannot see anymore. " she says it's been a difficult time for us, we've both been sick, we are both very aware that we have problems getting things done , Mom is saying all of this, they did not get out, she's taking some powerful medicine as she fell down again, did not break anything, " It's a career to being well."  Eric has not been doing well, she goes in for her test on Wednesday." , "   The good news is that they have not found anything wrong with me! I do not have lung problems. never mind, i am rattling on, i try not to listen, eric hears it all. the upside of all of this medication is that something is work, not fixing my bones but my mind is much clearer, got rid of this fog from old age. Bill and Connie drove up. Eric and Connie had a great conversation that they both enjoyed. " Mom is talking about Bill's Alsheimers that he has. " But Bill looks wonderful! "  Mom as you say Larry sounds fine. She's laughing and enjoying her conversation with me and Eric is quiet and that's okay. I am enjoying writing this to you as she speaks to me. She is talking about Cathy now, Now we are talking about Connie owning three grand pianos! All the four or five grand pianos and there are not enough to go around! I am sorry we lost our grand piano but at least we do not have to go through this! It sank when it got loaded onto the boat in Costa Rica. They were waiting for it to dry out, the dining room table made it that we have here, but the Steinway did not make it. ... Connie has three grand pianos! Oh well, but Leslie is the maddest of them all ... " Both of them look much younger than they are! They don't look any older than they did 20 years ago. He's just not as up-tight as he was. I was blown away by the way they looked! " Sez Mom, Bill is two or three years older than me, Mom says ... they were for their period, their era, typical of what a good couple looked like. I think Connie has a distinct edge. " Oh Tony, you've got a plate full!  " "Mom says. " We're all working as hard as we can to keep it together. " I say. " here was hope when I got married at 23, the whole country has fallen apart. I don't want to vote for either of the candidates. They don't give our President to do what he can! They don't give him a chance. ... it brings back old days, memories of Brasil and the old days. Harry and Bill were closer than Connie and I were, Bill offered something really nice to Harry... he had been in the Army ... he softened the impression of the Foreign Service Harry did for Bill and other military people. When you think about it, it is amazing that Connie and I get along so well as we have absolutely nothing in common. What Bill and Harry had something special. But I had to work on Connie, we had some hard times. " says Mom as she continues to talk about Bill and Connie and Cathy ...  Mom is talking about the Poire Wiliiam liqueur that I gave her last Thanksgiving. " I don't go any places. My bank balance is going up because it's no fun for me, it's exhausting, I can't see anymore, Eric does most of the shopping. He has trusted to me to buy somethings and I have made some remarkable mistakes! " Mom just said chuckling out loud! She is saying that the signs on things should be larger so that those with macular degeneration ... because of old age, it's not because of anything else, they should do something about this. " I'm worried that I might get it and that worries me. " I tell Mom, as I could not live without my sight I am thinking ... that would be just disastrous I think to myself as I listen to Mom as she talks on giving me little chance to say anything, and that is okay with me as I just like listening to her voice, her animation, I'm glad I can talk to you, you sound good. " So do you! " I say back, you sound nice , Give my love to everybody. We had a really nice conversation. Just tell he I loved our conversation. " I love you Tony! " " I love you Mom. I'm so happy to talk to you. " Give the cats my love! " Mom just added. " Beau Beau 2 is whatever Eric calls her, It's too much to try to remember. Beau Beau 2 has her moments, she does not like for me to pick her up, if I surprise her, she has mean claws. Eric has a different experience. I wish I had a border terrior! Benny was little border terrier. Benny was given to Mort to give to me on one of his trips to Europe. ... They did fox hunting, bring the fox up by the neck from their burrough. Benny did fine at Lake Tahoe. People loved him ... one day he just disappeared. Mother put up a sign about it, the next day a man calls and a man called and said they think they found Benny on a boulevard on the way to hearing Frank Sinatra .... a big deal at this night club in Hollywood, he had a topless foreign car, and he stopped and he left Benny with the hatcheck girl, everybody was talking with Benny, and he brought him over to me and mother at the show and that's how we got him back, he was something in Hollywood, I did not know, gorgeous, holding little Benny ... he was perfectly charming, Benny was the hit of the evening, he stole the show, I am sure that Frank Sinatra sang well, Benny was being so charming at the hat checkout counter .... only in Hollywood, ... Benny disappeared again, a week or so later, benny went away to die Mom's mother said, if Benny came home , wanted to come home, he knew how to come home and he would , Ciro's night club, was there for a longtime. Number one, with a stage, you could dance, they only had the best performers ... I went on my 21st birthday with a man, when it was all over he asked me to marry him, i was dumbfounded, I did not see it coming, ... said Mom,  anyway, that's the story of Benny ... the book is 3 pages and growing ,   it's almost finished, Eric has turned it into a story, he has made a time and a generation come to life, and Bengy makes it come alive.... what it was like then .... says Mom, Eric has added to make it all come alive ... " I don't know what to think, it's hard to be the subject of a book ... they never ask people what they think about adoption and being adopted. That's why I wrote the book. I told them what I thought. Now it is all written in black-and=white, mother was a dreadful alcoholic, I am much more sympathetic than I was to her. I can't deal wit this, your screaming and yelling. The heating system had gone out here in Brazil, and so I said : "  Harry you put her back on the plane to go back to home, .....mother did not want a child, we were never close, she wanted a symbol, I was brought up according to Meridian's Corsican standards, she did not speak English, i spent all day with this woman that yacked at e, it was weird, i did not understand anything, all tjose years when a young girl bonds with her mother, it never happened for meme, first a nurse, them Meridiam i never really knew mother until i was twelve, i don't know what mother thought of me? " says Mom  " I am muc more understanding of mother. What she thought she was doing - impressing the neighbors! That's tough on a kid. I was akid! Eric's book has explained mother to me. having a book written about you is an experience. It's mostly eric's interpretation of what i have written and what i have told him, it's bee an experience, he hasn't given up on me! " Mom laughs, he's been very persistent, he has to read it to me . It's been a real experience for me learning about myself, why i did or why i felt so little affection for mother, i think mother loved cars. it's a mote idea : what did she love better, me or the Oldsmobile, " Mom laughed! " You took the child then, no questions asked. I think the whole thing should be abolished. Anyway, I'm going to hang up now ... " Mom says ... Let's stop talking now. I love you very much. Call me soon. " says Mom to me and the phone is hung up and push the button on my mobile home line , too! What a great conversation. We spoke of you earlier upstairs so that is not written here Larry. We both said how great you sounded and how nice it was to talk to you and hear your voice. then she wanted your number as I told her I would call you so I came down here to my computer to type this and give her your number and I am thrilled that I did and have it down and can share it hear now with you. Love you, call you really soon. Have a great Friday,  TONY  11/28/ 2014  ... the day after Thanksgiving here at home in northern Virginia ... it's nice outside, took Louie Abigail's cat outside earlier when I went to get the Washington Post newspaper. There are lots of typos here and I will try and correct them before sending this to you now, if not, try and make the

Friday, August 22, 2014

Watercolor Christmas Images Draw By Nancy Proctor Quinn In 1980 With Watercolors On A Piece Of Cardboard Inspiored By Her Small Clay Painted Bright Figurines That She Loves Along With Her French Provence Santons : Cheers! Sante A Tous!!!

What fun, I treasure this and always have it on display around my desk at home, thanks Mom, cheers, happy Friday and weekend to all this August 22nd, 2014 ... call you later Mom from work, love you!   TONY









Drawn by Nancy Proctor Quinn in Crystal City in her old apartment in late 1980 around the holidays I believe on this piece of cardboard with some of my watercolors from the small Christmas set of figurines for Noel that she bought on a trip with our family to Martinique. I was not on trip then unfortunately but she loves these almost as much, or as much ?!?, as her/our French Provence Santons. Cheers et Sante et a plus tard aujourd'hui Maman! Je vous aime beaucoup!! To fils,  TONY  8/22/2014

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

A Wonderful Monday Afternoon July 28th, 2014 Spent With My Mother Nancy And My Brother Eric On A Drop-Dead Gorgeous Low-Humidity, Bright, Breezy, Baby-Blue Skies Monday : Hurray, Great Drive Up And Back , Lovely Reading To Us By Brother Eric Of Our Mother's Childhood Stories She Wrote & Eric Is Editing To Publish Soon!


We are all of us stars ... reads this ... From Marilyn Monroe's Facebook page of today, July 29th, 2014 ...




and my comment ...


Lovely thing to see after walking through my garden out back and saying to myself : " It's a real garden. " I was beaming inside as I said this before coming inside on another drop-dead- gorgeous day here. My drive up to Winchester yesterday and working in our mother's garden and watering weeding, seeing her, have my brother read her own childhood memoirs out loud to us , having her comment on them, then him starting to read again : wow, what can I possibly say?!? Priceless. With the smell of basil on my hands from earlier working outside, moving a delicate lavender-pink Hydrange to the front with a sad hanging vine that desperately needed watering, transplanting Yarrow to the front, more dirt stuck between my fingers and my nails, my The Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation RACE FOR THE CURE Washington D.C. June 5th, 2004 a bit dirty from the garden work - my badge of hard work - ahhhhh, it was all priceless on a beautiful day and then to return to dinner with wife and daughter, white Burgundy from Saint Veran I believe and a 2010 Grand Cru Saint Emilion red Bordeaux - on still a beautiful evening, and this image of Marilyn : THE Tops! Cheers, Happy Tuesday, 7/29/2014 to you all ... off to work in D.C. soon ... TONY

Thursday, July 10, 2014

For Us Three, And We Know Who We Three Are, YOU Are ONE of THE JOYS Of Our Lives : Thank You, Obregado, Merci, Gracias ... Happy Thursday July 10th, 2014 To You Today, May It be Fine Day For You!!!



One of the real joys of my life, love you, love you, love you ... may this be a great Thursday for you, it was great to hear your voice earlier this morning ...
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LOVE YOU!!!!!!   ALWAYS, ALWAYS WILL, TOO .. all three of us ...

Monday, June 9, 2014

The Story Behind Our Old Hanging Map From Brasilia Back ( In 1962-1963 ? ) That Says : Carta Do Mundo Projecao Azimutal Equidistante Centro Brasilia, D.F. Escala 60 000 000 , No. 10 001 , Preco Crg 80,00 : What Does All This mean?!?





I'll tell you what it all means, it's an old gift given to my father Harry Alan Quinn ( and indirectly my mother Nancy Proctor Quinn ) years ago by the Brazilian State Department of the capitol that had just formed there in the center of Brazil way out in the middle then of nowhere that was called Brasilia! Wow, a gift to our father and to our mother. What an honor, what a treat, what a privilege, and I did not know any of this until a month or so ago when my mother and brother Eric gave me this map, saying that I was the one to have it.





I grew up with this map. It was always part of our household and I looked at it and loved it in my own growing-up-with-it-always-being-there sort of way. I guess I took it for granted. Sorry to say that. But I was innocent. I never knew, I never heard the story. Neither my father or my mother told me, or if they did it went in one ear and out my other, really bad , so embarrassing, I know all of this. Oh well, I am here to now rectify all of this on the eve of the next Soccer World Cup that is about to start in Brasil in a couple of day, Thursday, June 12ht, 2014. Just in time, the nick of time, not a minute to lose. I know, I'm dramatic, so shoot me, with blanks of course.

My mother told me the story in her apartment recently with my brother Eric there with us. Sorry to say our other brother Larry was not with us. he would have liked this story, too. he would have been proud, he would have taken a lot of pleasure in this I am sure just as I did. I think that our brother Eric had already heard the story a number of times so I think that he was not as shocked or as surprised as I was. The news of this gift to them from the ' new ' government of Brasil back in 1961 was electrifying. It blew me, still does blow me away!

Our mother Nancy went on to say that she had been approached by one of the srnior officials of the Brazilian government, their State Department, just like ours, a 4-story building she said. The official that she knew and that had worked closely with our father Harry Quinn had approached her once he heard that our father was leaving Brasilia.

Turns out that our father and his work, the kind of no-nonsense, hard-working man that he was was well-respected and that they had enjoyed working with him and wanted to give him and our mother a token of their appreciation. He asked my mother what would her husband / our father like as a parting gift?

I cannot remember everything that our mother said and exactly as she had said it, but I do know the essentials of what she said to me telling me this story recently in front of my brother Eric. At some point she had talked to our father and they had spoken of this and my father said that he would like one of the hanging circular maps that he saw when he entered the building as he had admired it greatly.

So, when she told this official he paused, maybe even gulped and said something like : " But there are only four of them, one on each of the four floors of this building." He said that he would check and see what he could do about this and let them know.





My mother and father did not know what the outcome would be? They had to wait , wonder and see? Anyway, you all already know the outcome, they presented one of these maps to our father and mother and we have enjoyed it, loved it, weathered and aged it with our travels since then around the world that meant it went next back here to Washington D.C., then to Trinidad, then back here, next to Paris, France and then back here and perhaps even to San Leandro, California? I am not sure about that?

I have more questions for our mother but I want to post this now with the pictures that were just taken by our Swedish neighbor Katarina with her phone and sent to my email address : tonythewineguy@gmail.com. I will now include them here for everyone to see.

As I just told Katarina this is pretty special and still what an honor, and on the eve of the World Soccer Cup, and in two years the summer Olympics, wow, this - as it was then - is history, this is a period in time that was then and is now special and I , for one, have not lost sight of that at all.





Enjoy this, please share this with your friends, and let's all make some really big noise for Brasil now as they have earned and deserve it. I loved spending the six years of my life there from 2-8 years-of-age and never tire of hearing of those times from our mother Nancy. Thanks Mom, you are the best. Thanks, too Dad, you are also super : we admire you both.

What a wonderful and colorful and magical and transforming period of our lives we four spent there back in the mid to late fifties and the first years of the 60's.

Ola, obregado para tudos, vais, vais, vais, vais VAIS BRASIL!   Anthony ( TONY ) Quinn Monday, June 9th, 2014



Saturday, April 19, 2014

Meeting Cristina From Belo Horizonte, Brazil & Telling Her About The Dress I Bought My Mother There in The Late 50's , & Selling Her Some SALTON Wines Just Now, Saturday, April 19th, 2014 ... All Good On Easter Weekend!

JUST HELPED Cristian with a difficult wine choice : she was going to see picky people about their wines that travel extensively and always push her wines back to the side on the counter and never open them when she visits. I told her that that makes me feel really bad and that we had to do something about it. " Where are you from ? " I ask Crustina . " Brazil. " she responds. " What?!? Then you have to take them a wine from Brazil! " " Noooooo! " she groans. " They are no good. We buy the wines from Argentina. " I said : " That's not true! They are good. You must take them a wine from Brazil! Blame me, Anthony Quinn, have them come see me if there's any problem! " She smiles, hesitates, as I reach for the SALTON Volpi Pinot Noir, $17.99, 13.5% alcohol by volume, Campanha Gaucha. She says out loud as I hand her the bottle : " Campanha Gaucha. " I ask her where she's from? Belo Horizante she says. My face lights up : " That's where I bought my mother a dress when I was a child and we were driving from Rio to Cristallina to buy Yopaz and other semi-precious stones ... I was only 6-7 years old then ... " It was a great serendipitous conversation and I can't wait to hear from Cristina that bought the Petit Chablis  DOMAINE JEAN CLAUDE COURTAULT 2011, $18.99, 12.5% alcohol by volume, and the " Intenso " espumante-likeProsecco , $14.99 from SALTON, and the SALTON Pinot Noir, too ... cheers,  Anthony ( TONY ) Quinn  4/19/2014 Happy Easter all, and it's the last day of Passover week, too ... cheers all ...  TONY a beautiful Saturday here in Cleveland Park Northwest, Washington D.C., 20008, baby blue skies, breezy, bright, clear skies, lovely - nice to be alive ...

Monday, April 14, 2014

Response To A Friend About Our Parents When She Wrote To Me : Missed U Yesterday, Sunday, April 13th, 2014 On A Full Moon's Day! Cheers, Chin Up, Love You Mom!


I am feeling your pain with your mother and that it is so hard for you and that it is also the first year anniversary of your father's death. I wish I could be there for you, I am here for you, that much I can say. It was so hard when my father Harry Alan Quinn passed away in 1997 : my whole world crumbled in parts and I unraveled and was a mess and at a loss and in such pieces for so long. It was so hard and yet I remember so many of the great times we had visiting the wineries in California together and I have the pictures and it all really helps me even now. He would just call me and say " hello " and chat and ask me how I was, no judging, no expectations, just care and concern - and I loved and appreciated that more than anything else, and , of course miss it today so much. I will call my mother and check in with her after I take Louie outside again for another ' Zen ' moment in our yard, as I have just finished weeding and more bagging of leaves that started yesterday and will continue into today my Monday day-off as I reflect and absorb what we said and that was so special to me and that has filled me today with such exuberance and unbridled joy and contentment and warmth and joy and completeness as our chat went on under a full moon and I felt a bit like I was on a stage bathed so brilliantly in the moon's soulfulness that reminded me so of it's same impact with the bright stars at the beach last year in such a tranquil and loving and peaceful setting with a constant surf breaking and the sun's warmth from earlier still warming our soles as the beady-eyed crabs stared defiantly up at us with what must have been a simple question : " What are you doing here on our turf? ", and the insistent demand : " Get off our beach now! "

I love you Mom and will be calling you later to check in with you about how you are and how the ' saga ' of the bedbugs is playing out for you? Hope it's all over now. I love you dearly. You always taught me to respect women and to treat them right and I have spent my life trying to do my best at that. Cheers, happy Monday, April 14th, 2014 ...   Your son,   TONY     here in northern Virginia as I get ready for more of this gray, warm day ... lorts to do, enjoying having your granddaughter's two cats here to keep me company now ...   

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Mentioning My Mom & The Wine ESCARPMENT & Her Friend Isolde Chapin In A Poem I Wrote March 23rd, 2010, Tuesday Morn- 1 Of 4 -? Cheers, Love You Mom, Loved The 2002 ESCARPMENT Pinot Noir From new Zealand, Too!


I Solde Isolde
Is Old I Over
Brim Escarpment Per
Peer Mom Mine Of
No Now More No?!?
Mom's Distrau Raw
Motions No Taught
Not Money Bought
I Drink Mine Escarp
My Rpment Pinot A
Noir Of 2002 The
Raw Flaves The
Spices Cold Me
From Staves Off Off
Boff Scoff I'm Into
All Tastes 'N I So Sorro
So Sad Mom Mine For
Now As Life Passes
On Away Not To
Here Always Stay ...

#4 Le 23 Mars, 2010 Mardi matin a 9:21 AM on Rt. 50, VA en Virginie en voiture on a gray, cold, brr, overcast day as spring starts. Cheers, TONY

Monday, March 22, 2010